I love him with all my heart so much so that my friends think it has changed me and I am forever neglecting my own needs. You were thinking about yourself and not your boyfriend. When this guy texted you he next day and asked "if you remembered what had happened", apparently he knew you were not fully aware of what was going on. There are some people with personality disorders and some who understand the effects of alcohol. What do you think I should do? It'll be very difficult to forgive yourself and put all of this in the past until you do. Does it help in weight loss?
“I Got Drunk at a Party and Might Have Cheated on My Boyfriend”
That, in a nutshell, is rape culture, and one of the reasons your comment is so terrible. I agree she did nothing wrong — in that she did not deserve what happened and did not deserve to be hit on like that — and possibly more — without her consent. A few months later, some friends approached my boyfriend and told him there were rumours that I had cheated on him that night. I hope to God nothing did.
Large quantities of alcohol, especially when consumed quickly and on an empty stomach, can produce a blackout, or an interval of time for which the intoxicated person cannot recall key details of events, or even entire events. Did i do the right thing by telling my boyfriend? I read something online saying that you can't blame the alcohol but i genuinely think that's the cause. Like many relationships we have had our ups and downs but have remained strong. You didn't murder anyone. I replied that I vaguely remembered anything and then he explained everything to me. I am not looking to be bashed as believe me I am in the worst state of my life.